Is Your Government Crashing Your Family and Your Home?

3:03 pm in family law by Daniel James Dick

WTC 9/11

WTC 9/11

You’re a faithful parent.  You’ve done nothing to hurt your family.  You have worked for years to build up your family, to provide for your family, to nourish your family.  You studied books, watched videos, and gave your all for the best for your spouse and your children.

And now your spouse is cheating on you.  The divorce papers are laying on the table and you tear them up before your spouse has a chance to turn them in, but suddenly you’re in a public place and a stranger walks up to you, asks to verify your name.  You wonder how he or she knows your name and suddenly you’re served your divorce papers.

How do you feel?

Betrayed?  Hurt?

Who is Responsible?

When we saw the first plane crash into the first tower of the World Trade Center on the news, many of us wondered, “How did this happen?”  “Is it for real?”  “Is this some kind of special effect scene out of a new movie?”

After reality set in we wondered, “How could a pilot make such a horrible mistake?”  Even if the instruments went afoul, how could the pilot and any co-pilots or navigators avoid seeing the building before them?  Still, perhaps subconsciously we did not want to believe that the government and the transportation industries we had trusted with our lives and the lives of our friends and loved ones could have failed to protect us from terrorism.  It must have been an accident or equipment failure.  But, then the second plane hit the second tower.  And another hit the Pentagon while a fourth plane targeting the white house was taken down by courageous passengers.

It was intentional.  And most of us flew American flags in love for our nation and in defiance of this juvenile act of terrorism, stupidity and cowardice committed in the name of Mohammad.  People depicted Mohammad’s face on the body of a dog or pig.  People spoke of pigs urinating on Mohammad’s and Osama bin Laden’s faces.  Pictures of fighter jets carrying pigs tied to missiles were labeled as the ultimate weapon against the Taliban.  America was ready for war.

Uncle Sam I want You!

I Want You!

Someone Crashes Your Home and Your Family

Your family crashes.  You think it’s an accident and might be your fault.  Perhaps you were not good enough.  Maybe your spouse found someone better.  You have to believe it’s your fault because if it is someone else’s fault, what hope do you have?  How can you fix it?

So you try.  You cry.  You pry for information.  How did the affair start?  Who is the other party?  You have terrible thoughts about 1001 ways to torment or murder this person.  But, you realize if this person goes away, chances are there will be another and another.  The problem is your spouse.

But, is it?  Is it really?  Well, yes, if you listen to the court, and you should get an attorney immediately before you make a mistake and lose everything.  It’s your spouse’s fault when it’s profitable.  As long as the courts can keep you and your spouse fired up against each other, there is wealth to be gained.  Remember, you’re at risk.  Dire risk.  You could lose everything.  And if you want a fair outcome for yourself and your family, you had better pay up.  After all, how could you love your children or your family if you are not willing to give your all to fight for them?

Keeping Your Plane on Course Toward Your WTC

Many states in the US require couples to go to mandatory mediation especially when children are involved in the divorce.  Isn’t that wonderful?  Suddenly you feel a rush of hope that the mediator will help you patch up differences and avoid a divorce if it can be prevented.  Right?

Dead wrong!  You’re looking for a way to turn your “plane” away from your WTC before it is too late.  You’re frightened.  You’re desperate.  And then suddenly you find your mediator is there to make sure your plane stays on course and your WTC is taken out once and for all.  The mediator pretends to take the middle road without any bias toward either party, but it’s a lie.  The mediator is wholly committed to the divorce, presupposing the divorce is a sure thing, and making sure it stays on course.  Plans are made to divide property and time with the children in a way that is acceptable to both parents.  And if you do not agree with the terms, the mediator will document what you don’t agree with and hand his or her recommendations over to the judge where you will be told what you will be deprived of and how your family will be wrecked.

Conspiring for DollarsAre You Frightened?

So frightened you cannot live without having an attorney to protect you?  Then you’ll probably pay whatever the attorney requires for your protection.  But, rest assured you will not be protected.  As long as injustice prevails, your attorney gets paid.  When a decision is made final and both parties accept it, the attorneys stop making money.  So, your attorney and your opposing attorney may negotiate in ways inflate their wealth at your expense.

So your children are taken from you.  Why?  Any reason.  Because you’re a man and children need their mother.  Because the children need two parents.  But, wouldn’t it be a horrible thing for children to live in a whorehouse of adultery while the children and their faithful parents are deprived of everything?  If you ask that question, they may ask you, “How do you know?” or “Why?”  If you find it irritating that they ask the most stupid questions in defense of injustice, just remember, they make money doing that.

Martin-Luther-King

Martin-Luther-King

Will You Fight Back?

What would you be willing to do to protect your family?  What would you do for justice?  For liberty?  For freedom?  For love?  For love of family?  For the love of your children?

Would you gather people for a protest?  Would you march on city hall?

Some people will be that honorable and that valiant.  When that happens, this problem will begin to be overthrown.  Statistics show most people wait for someone else to get something started.

But, if you cannot start a protest, would you at least notify a senator or legislator or use one of the tabs on this page to tell others about this by email, facebook, or something?

If you cannot do this for me, can you do it for the love of your family and your country?

Thank you so much!

Daniel J. Dick

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Marriage Saving Resources

6:46 am in education by dan

Marriage Related Items

Marriage Related Items

As a young person, I longed to be married and have a family. I studied several books on this. I watched parents of really great families in my church hoping to model my family after theirs.

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Marriage Education: Marriage Breakthrough Seminar

6:44 am in education by dan

Happy HomeDuring my time of trying to save my first marriage, I bought and read two books by Michele Wiener-Davis:

Later, I bought a pair of marriage seminar leadership packages created by respected licensed marriage counselor Michele Wiener-Davis. I obtained a certificate that would allow me to present these seminars.

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Christie Brinkley, Peter Cook Reach Divorce Settlement

6:40 am in celebrity by dan

Christy Brinkley

See this article
Christie Brinkley, Peter Cook Reach Divorce Settlement on Fox News

Christie Brinkley’s divorce is a classic case that illustrates why we cannot afford to see divorce injustice as a men’s rights issue only.

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Prayer

6:36 am in help by dan

Dog and Boy PrayingPrayer That Makes Things Happen

Prayer is not about getting God to obey you on command. I know it may sound obvious, but when the pain of a situation becomes extreme, it is easy to get angry with God and start making demands. And, many people find God becomes quiet and distant rather than coming to help.

But, don’t lose hope. There is a proper and effective way to move God.

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How Can I Save My Marriage?

6:28 am in help by dan

PEPLE079How can I save my marriage?

  • What do I do if my husband or wife is having an affair?
  • How can I know if my husband or wife is having an affair?
  • Can my marriage be saved after adultery?
  • Where can I find help to strengthen my marriage?
  • How do I know if someone is right for me?

If your marriage is in crisis, or if you are engaged to be married soon, getting the right help fast can make all the difference in the world.

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I Have a Dream, Too

1:43 am in Uncategorized by dan

I have a dream…

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That victims of adultery and divorce will no longer have to pay for the sins of the perpetrators.

I have a dream…

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The rights of the faithful and their children to live together in love enjoying the shared family assets will no longer be stolen by a cowardly nation or destroyed by an unfaithful and dishonest parent.

I have a dream…

ENTR19FLOne day faithful parents will no longer endure slander and shame for sins they did not commit, and that the unfaithful should no longer prosper from such slander.

That American courts will no longer destroy the families of small children for profit.

I have a dream…

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One day our government, people, legislators and courts will have the integrity, love, and honor to defend the rights of citizens to enter into legitimately binding marriage agreements.

I have a dream you will love and share this dream with me

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I Have a Dream, Too

6:43 pm in Abandoned Spouses by dan

I have a dream…

PEPLE049

That victims of adultery and divorce will no longer have to pay for the sins of the perpetrators.

 

I have a dream…

1-Stealing

The rights of the faithful and their children to live together in love enjoying the shared family assets will no longer be stolen by a cowardly nation or destroyed by an unfaithful and dishonest parent.

 

 

I have a dream…

ENTR19FLOne day faithful parents will no longer endure slander and shame for sins they did not commit, and that the unfaithful should no longer prosper from such slander.

That American courts will no longer destroy the families of small children for profit.

 

I have a dream…

IMG0055

One day our government, people, legislators and courts will have the integrity, love, and honor to defend the rights of citizens to enter into legitimately binding marriage agreements.

I have a dream you will love and share this dream with me

by dan

Marriage Prepare

1:59 pm in Engaged by dan

Marriage-Preparation-QuestionsSeveral years ago, an organization called Marriage Savers came into some communities, met with pastors, and came up with an agreement that they would not marry people until they had gone through some marriage preparation first. And divorce rates dropped sharply.

One author named Michael Webb claimed said,

“An estimated 83% of divorces would not take place if couples asked each other the right questions”

Someone else jokingly said, “Of all statistics, 92.7 percent of them are made up.” And herein I violate one of the principles of good writing, and that is not to invalidate oneself :-) Especially with incomplete sentences and unprofessional smileys.

Statistics and joking aside, I know with absolute certainty from the testimonies of many people in various marriage and divorce related professions that premarital preparation improves the likelihood of success in marriage.

Eileen and I purchased this book and went through them before we went to our church’s premarital counseling with our pastor. I was a little afraid at first wondering whether this would cause us to touch on sensitive issues that might lead to a breakup. Instead, it helped us open up and actually have fun with these questions, and when we did go into marriage, we felt confident and secure in our love. We knew where we stood on the things that matter to us and our marriage has not been filled with all the fighting and unexpected and unpleasant surprises many marriages face.

When I see orders come through for this e-book in particular, it makes me happy. Our commission is small compared to some of the other e-books, but while I am happy other couples are getting help with their marriage crisis, I am always happier to see people have good marriages from the start than have to deal with serious problems later. That is not to say couples will have a hard time if they don’t get this particular book or that this book is the only one of its kind, but it is a good book and I’m glad Eileen and I got it before we were married.

Having said that, I do have to say that I am bothered a bit by some of the e-books Michael Webb has been making available lately. I don’t see him as though he were going off onto a new-age direction as Oprah did, but some of his e-books of late seemed to be overly focused on physical intimacy, and I have had to stop carrying his complete relationship package because of it. Even so, I found this e-book and the two e-books on 50 Secrets to Blissful Relationships to be excellent.

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Marriage for the Christian

10:27 pm in Uncategorized by dan

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Have you ever wondered why divorce rates are said to be as high in the church as they are outside the church? Here at GodsBlogs.com, we hope to have God help us to make a major difference and bring Christian marriage back to Christian marriage.